Taking Yourself on a Date: Nurturing Self-Care Through Small Acts of Love
My mom was great at knowing when she needed a break. After a long day, she’d say, "I think I need a mental health day," and take time to care for herself in a way that reconnected her to life. Inspired by this, I’ve come to think of these moments as "taking myself on a date." When we intentionally spend time alone—relaxing, reflecting, and nurturing ourselves—we create space to hear our inner wisdom. In this post, I share ideas for self-care practices to help you reconnect with yourself and embrace your worth.
Failed Mediation or Successful Nap?
Not every meditation session goes as planned—and that's okay! Sometimes, what you truly need is a nap. In this post, I reflect on how we can embrace both meditation and rest, dropping into whatever we need in the moment. Meditation isn't about perfection; it's about presence and self-compassion.
Know Thyself Through Music and Song
In this interview with The Brothers Koren, I reconnect with Isaac and Thorald, two talented musicians I first met during my New York days when our bands shared stages. Since then, they’ve transformed their careers, going from recording artists with The Kin to coaches guiding people to "Know Thyself Through Music and Song." Through their approach, they help people find and embrace their authentic voice by working with, not against, the "small voices" that often hold us back. Our conversation dives into their unique perspective on vocal expression, personal growth, and discovering the sacred power of one’s own voice.
Make your own Mantra
I want you to forget what you might believe about your voice and give yourself permission to explore.
Instead of judging yourself or your voice, I want to invite your 5-year-old self to do a little exploring by making up your own song (perhaps even a mantra).
By the way: You might also notice that your self-critical voice about your singing is similar to other limiting voices that you hear in other areas of your life.
For this exercise, I want you to explore soothing yourself with a song or at least some vocal sounds